Chatters Comments

What do chatters really think about Chat rooms ?

"I was using ICQ one night, and decide to become free for a chat.
I received 20 porn spam URL messages, one after another.
They were adding themselves to my chat friends list even though I had not authorized them.
For the first hour it was a laugh checking out the pages but now, I stay on invisible now so that only the people I know and that I want to talk to can see me." (male 22 ICQ)

 

"Even though I have a chatters profile page people still send me private messages asking me A/S/L and it is really annoying.
I like to know a little about who I'm talking to, so if people don't fill in their profile pages
I don't talk to them " - ( female 17 Lycos)

"I hate it when private messages pop up and they say stuff like A/S/L and do you want to chat dirty. I think it is really horrible, don't people have better things to do? If they got off the net long enough they might actually meet someone ! " - (female 15 Lycos/Yahoo)

"I'm only 15 and it says so on my profile, and I was bothered by another chatter who kept asking me questions, and harassing me. I told an online moderator who advised me to put the user on ignore, and dealt with the chatter who was being offensive. On line human moderators are great, they are really helpful, shame not all chats have them. " - (female 15 Lycos)

"I like chat rooms - I can chat to my friends and I don't get told off about the phone bill.
Chat rooms have a bad reputation, and some of it is just not true. " - ( male 13 )

" No ... I don't like them really. I say hello to everyone and chat to people I know.
But I get ignored. some nights you can sit for ages typing in messages and no one chats to you.
I find all that fast moving text is hard to concentrate on " - (male 31 MSN)

"Wap phone chats are a waste of time and money no one talks to you and it costs a fortune"
(male 29 MSN)

"I've met some great people, I've heard of people getting hacked and stuff because they have upset someone, but it has never happened to me" (female 14 Lycos/Yahoo)

" I had a photo on my profile page, I ended up removing it. Some of the messages I got were not very nice. One person called me a nasty names and some asked me my chest size, before they even said hello to me! I have never even chatted to them before they sent me a private message." (female 26 Lycos)

" They are cool, you can chat to anyone and meet people from all over the world " (male 28 ICQ)

" I've seen people fight, and sort out hackings for chatters that were unpopular, and I have also seen people say they are going to go looking for someone at a rock festival and give him a good kicking, I think it is a sucks that people you've chatted to a few times end up wanting to kill each other over some stupid joke that wasn't even funny in the first place." (male 18 Lycos/Yahoo)

"Chatting on the net is no different to meeting someone down the pub for the first time.
The person at the bar could turn out to be a bunny boiler " (male 31 ICQ)

" I've done the cyber thing once or twice, did nothing for me to be honest, it was a good laugh though." (male 18 Lycos)

" Oh god no ! I hate that cyber thing. For some reason even if you like avoid answering the questions they ask you by trying to divert the subject they just ask you what are you wearing and stuff. It is like dead creepy" - ( female 18 )

" This bloke sent me a picture and he was lovely, Brown hair and dead fit. So we arranged to meet one day and I took my friend with me. I could have died when I saw he was nearly bald and not 5 foot 10 like he said he was. He was more like 5 foot 6. - The Photo he sent must have been taken 6 years ago or something.

Me and my mate just turned around and went for a drink ourselves. At the time it was embarrassing but I can laugh about it now. " ( female 31 Lycos/Yahoo )

" I've met a few people for some no strings attached fun. It was a good laugh. I don't hurt no one. - Why are you interested ? ;-) " ( male 27 Lycos)

*****A big thank you to everyone on Lycos, MSN, Myspace
and ICQ who helped by answering some questions *****